Can self-proclaimed "pro-lifers" really be feminists?

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words by media girl posted July 29, 2005 - 5:37pm

ferdette asks this on mediagirl.org:

In my daily (compulsive) perusing of feministing's latest posts, I came across this post by Hannah, discussing the stance of Supreme Court nominee John Roberts' wife as ex-board member of Feminists for Life, and broaches the difficult concept of pro-lifers and their inclusion/exclusion in the feminist movement.

This is something that's been bothering me since my good friend's assertion in my History of American Feminism class last fall ('04) that she could very much be a feminist and pro-life. I respect this woman immensely, so I didn't argue with that assumption, and it was also obvious that she'd been hurt in the past by people denouncing her claim to feminism because of her pro-life stance, and I didn't want to be another one of those people. So I remained silent. But I've been turning it over and over in my head ever since.

Obviously, I'm pro-choice. And obviously, I'm a feminist. A feminist who is very adamant about the diversification of feminism so that we don't repeat the mistakes of the 2nd wave by excluding everyone who wasn't a white, middle- to upper-class. heterosexual, biological female.
However, I'm very torn on the inclusion of "feminists" who are anti-choice in this developing canon of feminism.

On the one hand, who are we, as pro-choice feminists, to say that someone who identifies as a feminist cannot identify as such because ze doesn't believe that abortion is morally correct? It seems anti-feminist to exclude someone because of their moral creed, and antithetical to the movement to alienate those who may stand with us on other issues.

On the other hand, I don't really understand their definition of feminism if they are ok with the controlling and curtailing of other women's reproductive rights. At least most of these feminists, including Feminists For Life are (from what I understand at least) pro-contraception (well, maybe not FFL particularly, but most pro-life feminists I know), (real) sex education, and, for the most part, pro-equal rights and whatnot. In every other aspect, really, these feminists "fit." But I'd say that a woman's right to choose is a pretty damn important part of feminism....

...Now, I'm the last person who would tell a person that ze couldn't identify as a feminist because of hir "morals" or "values," no matter how much I disagreed with them.
But I still doubt the viability and validity of a connection between feminism and pro-life. For some reason, "Feminists for Life" still strikes me as a glaring oxymoron, and these women who rally behind the banner of feminism but question the morality of a woman's choice still rub me the wrong way.

What are your thoughts?


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Comment by DreamOfPeace posted July 29, 2005 - 5:49pm

Is an issue of Economic Pragmatism, not morality.

The Webmaster at Raving Atheist also considers himself a feminist and is also Pro-life. The thing is there is a difference between your defining her morals and her wanting to legalize hers. I guess I would want to know what your friend thought the punishment should be for Abortion.

Maybe we should invite them to a debate. :-)

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Comment by Pseudo-Adrienne posted July 29, 2005 - 5:58pm

How can you be pro-women's-rights in all of these other areas, but when it comes to a woman's fundamental right to control her body, determine her reproductive destiny, her reproductive freedom, her autonomy, and her right to tell and demonstrate to a patriarchal society that she will not be made into birthing chattel against her will, you're against it--so how can you honestly be feminist? And how can you be feminist when you go by the "moral values" according to patriarchal standards when it comes to pregnancy and women's bodies? To me it is an oxymoron and personally, I do not believe that you can be feminist, yet be against a woman's right to choose. To me, reproductive rights--abortion and contraception--are too fundamental in promoting women's liberation from patriarchal societal constructs.

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Comment by DreamOfPeace posted July 29, 2005 - 6:00pm

One of the Commenters put up this from Findlaw

In one of the essays on abortion supplied by FFL, the writer says the following of birth control: "Contraceptives fail, and half of all aborting women admit they weren't using them anyway. Thus, preventing unplanned pregnancies will involve a return to sexual responsibility. This means either avoiding sex in situations where a child cannot be welcomed, or being willing to be responsible for lives unintentionally conceived, perhaps by making an adoption plan, entering a marriage, or faithful child support payments."

Rather than encouraging the use of contraceptives (perhaps by the half of aborting women who admit they were not using them, and by their sexual partners), the FFL solution appears to be abstinence, marriage, or giving up children to adoption.

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Comment by kactus posted July 29, 2005 - 6:12pm

These people are so out of touch with reality as to make me want to kick them in the nuts.


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Comment by artemisia posted July 29, 2005 - 8:10pm

that sounds like a wholesale endorsement of homosexuality to me! after all, you get to have great sex with another person with zero risk of pregnancy!

WOOHOOO!


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Comment by artemisia posted July 29, 2005 - 8:52pm

i've met some women over the years who claimed to be "pro life" feminists. their argument was that patriarchy does not value the sanctity of lives other than their own. feminism in contrast, should be about affirming life. now, i could at least follow that logic from those who, although personally pro-life, believed that the law should protect each woman's right to choose.

but the ones who thought abortion should be made illegal, that women should be forced into the role of fetus nurturer against her will? that never made any sense to me at all.

i respect feminists who personally would choose not to have an abortion. i can't respect the stance of those who would legislate their personal choice onto other women. those women may choose to call themselves feminists, but they aren't.


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Comment by ol cranky posted July 30, 2005 - 9:12am

I never heard of FFL until I tangled with a few of them who attacked me for the evils of supporting PP (I'd posted about a program PP has in SW Virginia in which they're bundled with an adoption agency for easy referrals to women who want more detailed information about adoption).

The comments I consistently receive from those who claim to be/support FFL is that a "real feminist" understands that abortion is the rejection of motherhood (the word infanticide was used a lot) and a woman's repsonsibility in the face of pregnancy. Somehow in deciding not to go to term with a pregnancy, women who have abortions are capitulating to the patriarchal view that diminshes the role of motherhood and therefor of women. It's an argument that makes no sense to me at all except in the case of a woman who terminates against her wishes at the command of the father.

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We need to make a world in which fewer children are born, and in which we take better care of them - George Wald


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Comment by DreamOfPeace posted July 30, 2005 - 10:08am

This group was named by the same people who created the title for Bush's "Clean Air Initiative." Inspite of the group however it is an interesting question and worth going over as each of us comes to her own idea of what Feminism is.

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Comment by media girl posted July 29, 2005 - 9:30pm

...take a look at NOW's show tonight.

Video here soon.


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Comment by media girl posted July 30, 2005 - 10:46am

Paraphrasing: Abortion makes it possible for teens to hide the fact that they've been molested. If they carry to term, then it becomes clear that they're pregnant and then people will know.

So not only is pregnancy punishment for women having sex, it's also bait to trap molesters.

(Oh yeah, and any minor who has sex has been molested.)

(oh oh, I almost forgot, if girls didn't have birth control, then they would not have sex. *smacks head* Wow! How easy the world's problems can be solved. We all just need to be Pollyannas!)


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Comment by artemisia posted July 30, 2005 - 1:43pm

when boys have been molested?


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Comment by ol cranky posted July 30, 2005 - 7:16pm

when they're hit with a lawsuit to pay child support?

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We need to make a world in which fewer children are born, and in which we take better care of them - George Wald


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